Saturday, June 06, 2009

Gone facebooking, back later

This blog was never that active anyway. I am now semi-active over at facebook (the evil facebook, yes) and wondering daily why I wasn't involved in creating something so simple.

peace out

Friday, September 26, 2008

Thought for the day.


I thought of this yesterday at lunch and we had a laugh. My friends persuaded me to go ahead and mock it up. I hope you like it. It makes me laugh.

Monday, August 04, 2008

so here it is...why not more posts?

Honestly, i think of something funny or interesting to talk about every day, and if I made time, I could at least blog about it every few days. Do I have the discipline or determination to keep it up regularly? Obviously not. The other thing however is that whole privacy thing. It creeps me out a bit to think my thoughts could be quoted back to me or psychoanalyzed by others years later once I toss them out into the net-a-sphere. Sure, on the message boards I'm on I say stupid stuff too left and right, and no one is truly anonymous on the Web, only fools believe that, but in general, it's semi-anonymous. This blog however...well, it can and will get searched by professionals looking into my background, or friends and/or enemies in my personal life.

Maybe I'm just a bit too open, or trusting, or plain-spoken to have a blog in that respect. I mean, if you know me, and many of you do, I will tell you my views on religion, and politics and all kinds of incendiary stuff, cause I trust you to know that I see both sides of the argument most of the time. I realize when I'm saying capital punishment needs to be way easier in our system that that could be ME, or my kids, someday who are not getting the second strike, or that when I'm a victim somehow I may feel differently and not want that eye for an eye so much. Maybe, who knows, you don't know until you're there. As an aside to that particular argument, yes I'm aware that while I think we as a human race have zero need for keeping the monsters amongst us (violent crimes, premeditated ones), I am fully aware that when send Bob to the chair, he has a family somewhere, a mom who will forgive him and not want him executed, no matter how heinous the crime. Etc etc... I know there are two, three, nay hundreds of sides to every argument.

Still, I will spout off about anything anyway. I will argue with you all day long that the american league system is lame and the national league has it right, the pitcher should have to hit, the rules should apply all the way around, do they let the catcher only have to get 3 bases to score a run since that guy's usually not fleet of foot? No. The DH is stupid. Now, would I feel differently if I was born in Boston and grown up watching the AL? Yeah, probably. Like most arguments, there are no facts, this is just opinion. I like the Blues, my deluded friend John likes the Red Wings. We haven't won our Cup yet, they went and bought 3 already. That's how it goes. If the internet teaches us anything, we should realize arguments are silly and rarely have a lot to do with fact. You cannot convince people of much, all you can do is let them see your viewpoint, and maybe tip their hat to it before they disagree. With web forums being so frequently a slow non-interactive conversation (compared to a chat with long-winded arguments back and forth, i.e. no rapid fire exchanges) we all should get it. The web is about people who like to talk and hear themselves do it. I'm not different than most of you in that respect. Do you really care what I think, reader? Unlikely. Maybe I spark a thought in your head and it changes how your day goes. That'd be good. I like sparks. If not, well, fine, ignore me. As I said above when I started this, I'm not posting something here every day anyway.

peace-
M

Awesome link for the day: Tron 2 bootleg trailer

Sunday, June 15, 2008

Happy Father's Day

Happiness is being lucky enough to be a good Dad.
And having big shoes to fill trying to match up to my own.

Pyzam Family Sticker Toy
Create your own family sticker graphic at pYzam.com

Thursday, June 05, 2008

I know an artist!


It's amazing to me that people have such talents and they're real... I mean, I guess I know that Sidney Crosby is real too, but I've actually MET Sarah Wyman. No wait, okay, I met Sidney too once (briefly, we didn't hang out or anything, actually it was more of a 'hey kid, you are like awesome and I'm a hockey nerd, please sign this... I traveled 1000 miles to see you play and you are going to play in the NHL and like uh, I envy your skill and future endorsement deals, you rule dude!')

Okay okay we get it... the point is I know Sarah and she's awesomely talented and as her friends we get to see her dream come true as her professional artist career takes shape. How cool is that?

Green Weeds is her etsy site-- she makes very cool art. You should totally check it out, maybe get a print or a painting for someone if you know they appreciate nifty creative stuff.

She is on the cover of Underwired magazine this month. Go Sarah Go!

Friday, May 30, 2008

a friend

My friend Mayuri passed away last night, after she battled breast cancer the last 5 years. She was so much fun, it makes me cry to think of her jokes now.

She sent me this last year -- and naturally apologized to her family but not to the rest of us. She wouldn't have to, cause I knew she was just warped and we loved her for it. It hurts now to think of her gone. Life is so cruel.

Mayuri was only 35, and leaves behind a great husband Sean. I used to play hockey with Sean and I worked with Mayuri for a few years back in ths 90s, before I moved out of biology into IT and she ended up going to vet school with Sean. She was wickedly funny and loved to shock people with jokes or stories. She being Indian-American (from Texas, so she was one of those in-your-face American women), she hid her relationship with Sean from the folks for years, affectionately calling him her 'pasty-faced irish boy'. Once she got diagnosed, they immediately got married since there wasn't much reason to hide the relationship anymore (She actually said "I figured why not throw the grenade as long as I'm dropping the bomb") and her family welcomed him in to the fold, they had a full Hindu ceremony to make the folks happy and poor Sean did well stumbling through his lines with henna painted on his hands and arms etc. She looked lovely on her big day and they were both so happy together...basically they were always like that since I can remember meeting him.

I hurt today and I can't imagine Sean's loss. I grieve for my friend who's gone and I hate the disease that took her from us. Give your friends and loved ones a hug when you see them, and please consider giving at least a buck or two to the Komen walk for the Cure if you have a chance. Mayuri had the benefit of her cancer being somewhat treatable with hormones (I think she said something like 'oh I have the good kind of malignant stage 4 cancer!') -- I think that bought her years. I already miss her brashness, her twinkling eyes and amused laughter, and it hurts right now to think of her, because she still makes me laugh, and then I cry again.

Susan G. Komen Race for the Cure

Tuesday, February 19, 2008

slacker

hey, I'm doing a lot of other stuff okay, so I'm not blogging.
I've never been a diary-keeping type, so if you've been by here to see new content lately and you've left unhappy (and probably thinking 'slacker!'), well, I apologize. You should manage your expectations though :)

Blues won tonight. Great game. Kids are great, one is swimming like a champ, the other is getting potty-trained quickly suddenly--he's getting 'bigger bigger bigger!' as he says.

Dar is good, work is good, what else matters?